What is monitoring and mood monitoring?
Monitoring is way of becoming aware of what is happening in a certain circumstances. For example, a parent may monitor how much milk the child is drinking, a person who is dieting may monitor what they are eating or a person exercising may monitor how much they exercise a day. All these people have the goal of understanding or becoming more aware of what is happening in these situations. The parent, through his/her monitoring, may realize that, in fact, her child drinks only half a bottle of milk every other time. The person who is dieting may realize that they don’t really eat a lot but, they tend to eat more fattening foods and the person exercising may realize that he/she tends to exercise longer if they do it in the morning. Mood monitoring, similarly, is a way of becoming more aware of mood and mood changes.
Why should I monitor my mood?
Some people may already be monitoring their mood and may not be aware of it. These people know exactly when their mood changes and can predict what will happen. Others are not as in tune with their mood and changes in mood. Mood monitoring is a learning process which helps people get better in tune with their mood.
Some people have reported that their mood is either too low or too high and that they don’t have any “in-between” moods. Others have said that they can have days of ups and days of downs and some have said that they can feel both high and low in the same day. The goal of mood monitoring is to understand if mood changes, how mood changes, when it changes and is there anything happening before it changes.
How do I monitor my mood?
Identify extremes of mood, and when you are okay. Understand that there may be a progression in mood . Graph or monitor your mood.
Identifying extremes of mood and when you are okay:
An initial step in mood monitoring is identifying aspects of mood when you have been feeling very energized, very low and when you are feeling okay. Think about times when you have felt extreme energized and very low, sad or depressed. Now you can complete the table using the guidelines provided. Use these aspects of mood as guidelines only. There may be other aspects of your mood that are not listed here. The key is to put down how you feel.
Most people have a difficult time to identify what they are like when they are okay or on an even keel or experiencing stable mood. Often a question that arises is “Is there an okay me?” This can be a hard question to answer especially if mood swings are a major part of your life. Here are some ways of coming up with what you are like when you are okay.
- You could ask your significant other, family members or friends.
- Think about your hobbies and interests
- Describe your personality
- Your likes and dislikes
It is important to remember that no has a flat mood. Joyful events tend to put us in a more buoyant mood and sad experiences make us sad. The goal of identifying the stable aspects of your mood will help you understand if the mood you are experiencing is in the normal range or not.
The different stages or phases of your mood.
The next step to awareness of mood includes understanding the concept about how mood progresses from an early to a middle to a later stage. Some people feel that they don’t have early stages, they just get depressed or energized while others feel that there may be milder forms of some of the aspects of their mood. It is not easy to identify these milder forms of mood. One way of recognizing these phases is to look at your mood at an early, middle and late stage. You could ask yourself some questions about your mood and behavior (How do I behave? What is my thinking like? How do I feel?).
Firstly, look at the table you completed on your mood when you were feeling extremes of mood.[ “My mood and other aspects of it” ]
Then ask yourself: What was I like just before this? It is a good idea to ask family members or close friends to tell you about what they have noticed about your mood.
For example, if you have identified not wanting to see anyone when you are feeling very down, then just before that you may have noticed that you tend to not answer the phone and at an earlier stage, you may have noticed you start screening your calls on the answering machine.
Therefore, the table would look like:
Stages of my depressed mood
| Early stage Screening calls on answering machine |
Middle stage Don’t want to answer the phone |
Late stage Don’t want to see anyone |
Similarly, when you are more energized, you may have notice that in a later stage, you tend to not sleep for 3 straight days, before that, maybe you were going to bed a few hours later and getting up earlier and before that, maybe you were just having trouble going to sleep.
Therefore, the table would look like:
Stages of my energized mood
| Early stage Having trouble sleeping |
Middle stage Sleeping few hours later and getting up earlier |
Late stage No sleep for 3-4 days |
The main reason to understand if there are early changes in mood is help us take action before the mood progresses into the next stage. It is like driving a car down a hill. If you put the brakes on when the gradient is low, it is easier to slow down the car than if you put the brakes on further down the hill.